This page provides information about various on- and off-campus resources available to survivors of sexual, domestic, and dating violence. We invite you to use them to help support yourself and others! We also welcome you to contact our Project SAFE staff听to discuss these resources and any others that are available.
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Experiencing trauma, or being the person someone discloses details of trauma to, can be a confusing and听overwhelming experience for survivors and allies alike. Here are some helpful tips to consider as you make your way听towards a healing path that works best for you.
For Survivors
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Navigating the aftermath of violence is a deeply personal journey, and we here at Project SAFE seek to offer support to survivors in the ways that best meet their needs. While you consider your options, we hope you find the following list of tips and reminders helpful. As a survivor, remember that you have the right to:
- You have the right to healing and recovery. Healing after an experience of sexual violence is a process, and it looks different for everyone, but it is possible. There is no timeline for recovery, it may take weeks, months, or even years, and the journey of healing has its ups and downs. You have the right to feel your feelings and express yourself.
- You have the right to be believed and to receive support services like therapy, advocacy, crisis intervention, and safety planning. You have the right to trauma-informed care. You have the right to ask for help.
- You have the right to choose who, how, and when you wish to disclose your experience, if at all.
- You have the right to advocate for how you receive support. For example, when sitting down to talk to someone, consider: do I want advice right now, or just need someone to listen?
- You have the right to do nothing.
- You have the right to request or decline a medical examination.
- You have the right to report, or not report, the assault to the police and/or Title IX.
Should you choose to receive a medical examination:
- You have the right to be treated with dignity and respect and to be protected from embarassment or invasion of privacy.
- You have the right to have a rape crisis counselor advocate and a support person of your choosing present during the sexual assault evidentiary exam or physical exam [Penal Code 264.2].
- You have the right to a free sexual assault medical forensic exam within 5 days of the sexual assault. The exam will address your healthcare needs and collect evidence. You have this right regardless of whether you choose to file a police report.
- You have the right to choose whether to release your kit to law enforcement and make a police report immediately, or for your evidence kit to be stored at the healthcare facility for at least one year.
Should you choose to report:
- You have the right tobe treated with dignity and respect and to be protected from embarassment or invasion of privacy.
- You have the right to have a rape crisis counselor advocate present for any interview by law enforcement authorities, district attorneys, or defense attorneys [Penal Code 679.04].
- If you received a forensic medical exam and you choose to release your kit to the police, you have the right to forensic testing of the Sexual Assault Kit and the right to know the results of that testing.
- You have the right to ask for the status and results of the analysis of all evidence related to your assault.
- You have the right to request in writing and receive a FREE copy of the initial crime report related to your assault.
- If your assailant is convicted and required to register as a sex offender, you have the right to request their sex offender registry information from the prosecutor.
- Other tips for folks who have experienced sexual assault:听.
- Resources for male survivors: .
We also encourage you to consider reading through this flowchart to help clarify and identify what you would like to do, and who best to reach out to for support.
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For Allies
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The following tips for supporting survivors was provided by.
-听 Language matters.听 Consider using phrases like:
"I Believe you."
"Thank you for telling me. That was really brave."
"It's not your fault."
"I'm here for you."
- Check your language. 听Do not use terms like 鈥渟hould,鈥 鈥渉ave to,鈥 etc. Do not assign them a label. Let them define their experience and how they talk about it on their own. They might not be ready or in a place to identify as a survivor, or define in specific language what happened to them. Do not make promises you can鈥檛 keep. Sometimes folks just need a listening ear. That is an important role to play.
- After someone has disclosed to you,听 don鈥檛 initiate conversation about the assault.
- Actively listen. Respect when they want to engage, and when they don鈥檛.听 Be present in the conversation and maintain soft eye contact. Put away all electronic devices.
- Stick with affirming language.听 Validate what they share, as they share it.
- Be mindful of where you are when the survivor is sharing.听 Can someone overhear the conversation? Are you both in a safe place?
- Maintain confidentiality at all times.听 There鈥檚 a reason why you were told. If the person who discloses wants other folks to know, they will tell them.
- Don鈥檛 move into savior mode.听 This isn鈥檛 about you, it鈥檚 about them.
- Survivors deserve autonomy. You are there to listen not to act.听 Let them make their own decisions about what action, if any, they will take.
- Ask if there is anything they need from you. Don鈥檛 assume.听 If they make requests, honestly check in with yourself and let them know if you can meet them or not.
- Ask for consent before听any听physical touch happens.听 Respect their wishes and thank them for taking care of themselves.
- Make space for them to feel whatever emotions they are feeling and let them know that all of them are valid.听 Sometimes survivors experience regret from disclosing or fear of judgement.
- Don鈥檛 ask for details.听 Just because someone has disclosed their survivor status does not mean they want to disclose everything. You risk re-traumatizing survivors and forcing them to replay their abuse when you ask questions to things they haven鈥檛 offered. They might also feel like they are being interrogated, which is not the position you want to take.
- Don鈥檛 ask them who their abuser is.听 Naming their abuser doesn鈥檛 legitimize what they鈥檙e saying. What they are saying is already valid. They can share that information with you if and when they want.
- Some survivors dissociate in order to protect themselves.听 Coping mechanisms are strategies people processing trauma use to help manage their day-to-day emotions and mental well-being. Work to bring a sense of community to the survivor, not judgment.
- Educate yourself.听 Research laws and policies that support survivors. Don鈥檛 expect the survivor to do the work for you.
- Pace yourself and maintain your boundaries.听 Say no when you need to. This supports yourself and the survivor.
- Be mindful of what kind of support you offer.听 Offer only what you can sustain. You don鈥檛 want to make the survivor feel like they are too much or regret the fact that they disclosed to you at all.
- Healing is a long, non-linear journey.听 Patience is key. Change will not happen overnight.
For more resources on supporting a survivor:
- Visit the听听webpage.
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- Useful tips to consider when you suspect that someomne is a survivor, but they have not disclosed to you听.
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Some of the following resources are听 confidential , meaning that they will听not听share any information with the College, Title IX, the police, or anyone else, unless there is an imminent risk of harm to self or others. If you are undecided about filing a Title IX and/or police report, be sure to听 ASK听 if the person you are speaking to is a confidential resource听before听disclosing details about your experience. It is important to note that disclosing information about your experience to someone who is听not听a confidential resource may result in a mandated report.
The chart below can help to clarify the difference between confidential resources and responsible employees on campus.
Project SAFE Survivor Advocates
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The Project SAFE Survivor Advocates are a听 confidential resource, and can be reached at听survivoradvocate@oxy.edu听or (323) 259-4750. Survivor advocates are a confidential resource who can offer a wide variety of supportive measures. Read more about what they can do for you听here.
If you would like to schedule a meeting with a survivor advocate, use the link below.
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Emmons Wellness Center Counselors
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The听Emmons Wellness Center听offers听 confidential counseling services 听by appointment as well as for drop-ins and crisis walk-in hours. To make an appointment call (323) 259-2657. A list of support groups at Emmons and specific drop-in hours can be found听here. Crisis walk-in hours are from 3:00-4:15 PM Monday through Friday.
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TimelyCare
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新月直播 is excited to partner with TimelyMD to deliver听听鈥 a virtual health and well-being platform for students. Through either a mobile app or your desktop, TimelyCare provides 24/7 access to virtual care from anywhere in the United States at no cost year-round. Whether you鈥檙e feeling under the weather, anxious, or overwhelmed, you can talk to a licensed provider to get the care you need via phone or secure video visits. Visit听听or download the TimelyCare app to get started!
How can I access TimelyCare?
Visit听听or download the TimelyCare app from your app store and be sure to register with your school email address. You can then start visits from any web-enabled device 鈥 smartphone, tablet, laptop, or desktop 鈥 anywhere in the United States.
Who can use TimelyCare?
Any enrolled 新月直播 student.
What services are available?
- MedicalNow - 24/7, on-demand medical care.
- TalkNow - 24/7, on-demand emotional support.
- Scheduled Counseling - Select the day, time, and mental health provider of your choice. (12 visits per academic year)
- Scheduled Medical - Select the day, time, and medical provider of your choice.
-Self-Care Content - Yoga and meditation sessions and group conversations with our providers on a variety of health and well-being topics.
How much does a visit cost?
TimelyCare services are available at no cost to 新月直播 students.
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新月直播 24-Hour Crisis Hotline
Campus Safety
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Call听(323) 259-2599听to speak with an on-duty Campus Safety officer. Please note that Campus Safety personnel are听 not confidential 听 resources , and may have to file a Title IX report if you disclose specific details.
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Office For Religious and Spiritual Life (ORSL)
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The Director of the听Office for Religious and Spiritual Life, Reverend Doctor听Susan Young, is a听 confidential resource 听who can be reached by email at听young@oxy.edu听or by phone at (323) 259-1308.
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Title IX
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The听听is听 not a confidential resource , as it听handles the investigation and resolution of complaints of harassment and sexual/relationship听violence among Occidental community members. The Title IX Office is also responsible for holding the College accountable to its federal requirement to address sex and gender-based discrimination. Alexandra Fulcher, the Title IX Coordinator,听can be reached via email.听
If you would like to schedule a meeting with both a Project SAFE Advocate and听Title IX, use the link below.听This would be a great听option for someone who would like an advocate to accompany them to a meeting with Title IX for reasons including, but not limited to: navigating questions about the Title IX reporting process; receiving emotional support during the process and/or help with safety planning before, during, and after reporting.
Project S.A.F.E. is happy to provide referrals to any of these off-campus resources, where survivors and allies can find mental health, medical, and legal assistance. Visit the Project S.A.F.E. office for a referral, or drop by/call the program you are interested in directly at the numbers listed below.
Nearest 24-hour SART Centers : If you have been harmed and would like a medical examination ("rape kit"),听 The Violence Intervention Program 听and听 Santa Monica Rape Treatment Center 听are the nearest to campus. See below for more information.
Nearest 24-hour Advocacy: 听If you are reporting to police, visiting Title IX, going the SART Center for a medical examination, or any other assault-related meetings,听 you are entitled to an advocate . If Project SAFE is not available, the following offer 24-hour advocacy services:听 Violence Intervention Program, 听 Santa Monica Rape Treatment Center ,听 East LA Women's Center 听(also offers Spanish language advocacy), and听 Center For the Pacific Asian Family 听(also offers several Asian language advocacy options)-- see below for more information.听Be sure to ask for an advocate as soon as you get in touch with police and/or medical staff!
Other: 听Call or text 988 to get in touch with the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.
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Santa Monica Rape Treatment Center
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听provides 24/7, free, expert, comprehensive care for sexual assault victims. Services include emergency medical treatment and forensic services, crisis counseling and longer-term psychotherapy, and advocacy. The center can also provide accompaniments to police stations, medical centers and court proceedings.
They can be reached at听 (424) 259-7208.
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Violence Intervention Program
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The听听aims to protect and treat all victims of family violence and sexual assault. Services, which range from child, adult, and elderly care, include a holistic combination of mental health services and medical services. In addition, the VIP Sexual Assault Center has medical experts available 24/7 to provide forensic and medical exams in a calm, panic-free environment in order to help prevent victims of abuse from having to experience further trauma.
The mental health center can be reached at 听(323) 221-4134 , and the Sexual Assault Center can be reached at ( 323) 409-3800.
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East LA Women's Center
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he听听delivers innovative, comprehensive, culturally-responsive services that build on a foundation of trauma-informed, evidence-based practices designed to heal, support, protect, and empower the communities we serve. Services are offered to survivors of sexual assault, domestic violence, and human trafficking, and include advocacy services, advocate accompaniment, and mental health services.
They can be reached at their bilingual (Eng/Span), 24-hour crisis hotline at听 (800) 585-6231.
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The Jenesse Center
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The听听is a nonprofit domestic violence intervention and prevention organization with a resolute mission: to restore, and provide trauma informed, culturally responsive, holistic, comprehensive services to survivors and families impacted by domestic and sexual violence, and to advance prevention modalities to sustain healthy and safe communities free of violence. They provide prevention services, including education and community outreach, as well as intervention services, which include: case management, vocational training, health services, housing and shelter assistance, legal services, transportation, counseling and mental health services.
They can be reached at their 24/7 hotline here:听 (800) 799-7233
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Center For the Pacific Asian Family
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听aims to address domestic violence and sexual assault in the Asian and Pacific Islander communities. Services, including a 24/7 helpline, counseling and case management, and emergency and transitional shelters, are free, confidential and are available in more than 30 Asian and Pacific Islander languages. Located in Koreatown, they can be reached at听 (800) 339-3940 .
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Los Angeles LA LGBT Center
听provides services by LGBT+ domestic violence specialists, including certified domestic violence counselors, mental health professionals and attorneys. They are located in Hollywood and can be reached at听 ( 323) 993-7649 听for legal services and听 ( 323) 860-5806听 for advocacy services.
Their subsidiary, , is located in Boyle Heights and works primarily with queer Latine folks and their families.听
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Peace Over Violence
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听offers emergency, intervention, prevention, education, and advocacy services for survivors and their support people. Serviced are offered in English, Spanish, and American Sign Language. Their 24-hour hotline can be reached at听 (213) 626-3393 .
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Strength United
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听is dedicated to ending abuse and empowering survivors. The organization provides counseling for victims of sexual assault and intimate partner violence, as well as a Sexual Assault Response Team (SART), a client-centered program that provides emergency response to reports of child sexual abuse, rape and sexual assault. Located in Van Nuys, Strength United can be reached at听 (818) 787-9700 . For 24-hour support, they have a referral and response crisis line that can be reached at听 (818) 886-0453 .
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